Friday
Japan Factoid: Nintendo playing cards
Posted by
Dan
It's in Your Blood: Japan's obession with blood types
Posted by
Dan
Tuesday
Popular Words to Propose With in Japan
Posted by
Steve
A few recent comments from friends have set me wondering about Japanese marriage proposals. (No, I'm not planning on making one sometime soon.) My college professor once pointed out in class that a traditional way to ask a Japanese girl for her hand was with the suave line, "Will you make my miso soup for me every morning?" But it turns out that with a modern audience, that bit gets more mileage in laughs and jokes than in swoons.
So what do Japanese women these days actually want to hear? How should Japanese guys pop the question? Are any of the modern alternatives less gender-stereotyped?
Entertainment statistics giant Oricon proffers answers to all these questions and more with the results of a 2007 survey of single females:
If a Man Proposed to Me With These Words, I'd Be Happy:
From the top:
#1 ... "Let's get married."
#2 ... "Let's be together forever."
#3 ... "Let's be happy together."
#4 ... "I'll protect you for the rest of our lives."
(The submitter, in her 30s and from Osaka, explains, "I'd feel as if I were really important to him if he said that.")
#5 ... "I can't think of anyone but you."
(I want to feel that I'm number one. Kanagawa, 40)
#6 ... "Can we endure hardships?"
(I think more than anything else endurance is crucial to marriage. Saitama, 40)
#7 ... "I want you by my side for the rest of my life."
(It feels like he's giving me permission to be beside him for a long time--for the rest of our lives. Hokkaido, 30)
#8 ... "Will you be my wife?"
(Subtle proposals are romantic, too, but if he asks me clearly I'll be able to take it more straightforward. Okayama, 20)
#9 ... "Let's live our lives together."
(I don't ever want to be thrown away. Chiba, 20)
#10 ... "I need you."
(I would feel how important my presence is to him. Tottori, 40)
#11 ... "Let's make a happy home together."
(I want to be happy forever. Mie, 30)
Translation Notes:
実感 じっかん actually feel like, realize
苦労 くろう hard work, labor, toil
傍に そばに next to, beside, the same kanji as in かたわら
許容 きょよう allowance, concession
遠まわし とおまわし roundabout
ときめく makes your heart beat fast
#6, 苦労してもいいか and its comment, were the most difficult for me to put into realistic English. If you have any other suggestions for how you'd translate those, please share!
Just this year, Japan lifted its general ban on domestic political campaigning activities conducted online. It is now legal for Japanese political candidates to set up websites and advertise their platforms through social networking services. (That's right--it used to be a no-no in this country.)
Now, with this ban lifted, the Ministry of Internal Affairs and Communications has identified as a potential issue the activities of minors--that's anyone under the age of 20 here--in relation to political campaign efforts.
To try to nip any such activity in the bud, the ministry has issued a blanket statement targeting minors, reminding them that they face potential fines of up to 300,000 yen ($3000) and up to a year of jail time should they express public support for a campaign during their online activities.
Monday
Eye Exams in Japan
Posted by
LP
The only thing that caught me off guard about eye exams here is the difference in design. In the US, I was used to naming alphabet letters (a Snellen chart). However, sometimes I would be presented with a chart of "E"s pointing in different directions and asked to point my hand in the corresponding direction (an E chart).
That second test is similar to the eye exams used most commonly in Japan. However, instead of "E"s, the Japanese chart uses circles with little sections cut out of them.
Wednesday
What's "Shovel" in Japanese?
Posted by
ヤフー
todasan8 writes:
What's the difference between シャベル and スコップ?
Monday
Moving: Light Fixtures for a Japanese Apartment
Posted by
LP
This post continues my chronicle of moving to a new apartment in Japan. Today I have a big list of things to get done. One of them is finding a new light fixture for my new bedroom.
Wednesday
Why are the Japanese Such Bad Drivers?
Posted by
db214
It's no secret that the Asian driver stereotype is a negative one. Anger aside, let's find out if there's a real reason for this.
Friday
Why Do Many Japanese Bathrooms Not Have Hot Water?
Posted by
Dan
Wednesday
Guile and Deceit in the Ranks of AKB48
Posted by
LP
Anyway, AKB48 holds a variety of annual televised events to popularize the group and give fans a sense of interaction. One of those events is a giant Rock-Paper-Scissors tournament held between all of the group's members in single-elimination matchups. The grand victor is awarded the lead spot on one of the group's CD singles released in the following year.
Monday
Moving: Oh Yeah, I Need Curtains
Posted by
LP
Week 4, Tuesday:
It's already nighttime when I walk into my new place, and it's probably thanks to lights shining in from my neighbors' homes that I realize another hole in my carefully planned move: I'm going to need enough curtains for all the windows in my new home.
Ugai: Japanese People Love Gargling
Posted by
LP
In Japan as well, hand-washing is considered an important sanitary measure and children are taught to do it from an early age. Elementary school teachers and junior high school teachers (yes, really) demonstrate proper hand-washing behavior to students and then watch as students practice. Presumably offering tips. "Make sure to scrub all the way up to your wrist, Timmy!"
Now, hand-washing in Japan offers plenty of tangents to spiral off on, like the rarity of soap, paper towels, and hot water in public restrooms or the crazy little sink lids outfitted on toilet water tanks (you are supposed to wash your hands with the water that pours into the tank at the end of the flush cycle).
But the one I want to talk about today is the inseparable partner of hand-washing in Japan: The gargle.
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